Guilt tripping is a learned way to get through to others who are experienced as uncaring and indifferent. Or at least perceived to be so. There’s a fundamental problem with this strategy though: it doesn’t get me what I really
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Getting Inside the Guilt Trip: Part One
You know those times when you feel the squeeze? Someone is putting pressure on you, sometimes subtle & sometimes really not so subtle. You might be tempted to tell them off for ‘guilt-tripping.’ So what’s going on? First let’s translate